It’s Anita’s Life

Back to work from Maternity Leave… What a brutal awakening.  How short-lived. How eye-opening.  What intense guilt. If you’ve read my other posts you’d know that all I’ve ever wanted is to be a mama. Watch my babies grow up, hit their milestones and watch them as they conquer a new growth spurt or sleep regression. Roll, crawl, walk for the first time. Going back to work takes that from me. I’m more likely to miss those milestones working full time.  It's so hard to even picture a moment without my blessing, my answered prayer. When I went back to work after I had my Luca, back in 2022, I had an empty room, empty arms and a hole in my heart. I had no reason to go back to work and no reason to be home. But, being home meant I had to deal with the deafening quietness. I wish with all my heart our financial situation could be different and I could stay home with my babygirl. That’s something I hope to achieve some day.  Until then, I’m thankful my mom is able, wanting a...

I’m living my dream ✨ I sniff her hair, let my brain process it… *SHE’S HERE* Hearing her breathe takes me back to rubbing my pregnant bump. How hard I prayed to get here. How much my heart hoped and longed for her. The hours and days and months and years I prayed, hoped, longed, bargained, pleaded... The silent nights, the quiet moments, the empty arms, the empty heart, the missing piece in my life. Turned into - The short days and the long nights… The hard moments and joyous moments… The ins and outs of this early motherhood phase… The tears of frustration and the tears of joy… I’m taking it all in. I’m enjoying every bit of it. No matter how hard I find it. I waited so long for these moments. I knew it wouldn’t be easy, but I KNOW it’s worth it. ✨ I love being a mama. I love being her mama. I thank God every single day I get to parent here on earth too 🤍✨ She's the sunshine my life needed. Lord knows I needed her. ✨